Supporting Those in Recovery during the Holiday Season

As the holidays approach, a time usually filled with joy and celebration, it can also spark a range of emotions, especially for families navigating the complexities of recovery. Whether it’s a loved one overcoming addiction, managing mental health challenges, or healing from a significant life change, the holiday season can present unique hurdles.

In this blog post, we will share meaningful ways to support family and friends during this time, ensuring that the spirit of love and togetherness is still felt while creating an environment conducive to healing and growth.

Keep expectations realistic

Acknowledge that the holidays may look different, especially when celebrating with someone in early recovery, but different isn’t bad. You may need to adjust plans or skip some of your usual activities to be mindful of their needs. This transition may be hard for everyone, but it is important to help them (and yourself) realize the holidays can still be enjoyable.  

Express your support

Your loved one may be especially vulnerable during this time. Ask them, “What do you need from me to feel supported during this time?” Offer empathy, compassion, and positive communication. It is important to be mindful of their sobriety, but avoid making a show out of catering to them. Remember that connection is important.

Be open

Be open to hearing about triggers and cravings. Talking about them does not mean they will lead anywhere. Not talking about them is riskier.

Strategize an exit plan

Help your loved one create an exit plan for potentially triggering situations – let them know they have an “out” with you. Reassure them that you will support their choices, even if others are uncomfortable with the changes. Try to give grace and understanding if the recovering person misses an event or has to leave early.

Find support for yourself

Recovery is hard for families and friends too, so have a trusted person or two that you can lean on. The Council is also ready to support and guide you, even if your loved one is not seeking help here, through group meetings and more. Give us a call at 713.942.4100 or visit our website at any time. We invite you to join us on January 11 for the Wayfinders workshop to learn therapy-based skills about navigating a loved one’s addiction while also caring for yourself.

Maintaining Recovery during the Holiday Season

The winter holidays are usually a time of celebration, but for those in recovery, they can also bring added challenges. With the pressure of social gatherings, heightened expectations, and the overall emphasis on happiness, the holiday season can test your commitment to recovery in ways that other times of the year don’t.

In this blog, we’ll explore practical strategies for maintaining recovery during the holidays, whether you’re newly in recovery or have years under your belt. From navigating tricky social situations to finding moments for self-care, The Council is here to help turn this season into one of strength, joy, and resilience in recovery.

Keep expectations realistic

Just like with any other disease, substance abuse does not take a vacation just because the calendar says so. It’s important to keep expectations for yourself realistic in how you will maintain your recovery. Know your holidays may look different, but different isn’t bad.

Set healthy boundaries

Saying “no” can be one of the most empowering acts of self-care. It is more about being honest about what you can and can’t handle. Try to let go of the guilt of what you “should” do and prioritize what protects your recovery. One missed holiday event is worth being present for the next 10, 20, 30…

Surround yourself with the right people

Spend time with people who already know your struggle and can be there for you if the environment becomes a challenge to your sobriety or mental health.

Have an exit plan

If things don’t feel right, you might need to excuse yourself quickly. So before you go, think about how you will leave. Have your own transportation, ride-share apps installed, or a supportive friend ready to pick you up. Maintain your boundaries and remember that you are in control.

Schedule something to look forward to

Having something positive on your calendar can boost your spirits so plan an activity that excites you, whether it’s volunteering or attending a sober event. Mark your calendar for the Sober Recreation Committee bowling event on December 7 or come volunteer at The Council.

Reach out for support

If you’re wondering whether to reach out for support or not, go ahead and reach out now. The Council is ready to guide you through this season. We have over 15 different recovery group meetings on our campus and recovery support services available. Call us at 713.942.4100 or visit our website anytime for assistance.

The Council on Recovery Earns Three-Year CARF Accreditation

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We are excited to share that after intense review, The Council has received a three-year accreditation from The Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities.

Since our founding in 1946, The Council on Recovery has been at the forefront of helping individuals and families whose lives have been impacted by alcoholism, drug addiction, and co-occurring mental health disorders. 

We are proud to demonstrate our continued commitment to excellence by receiving a three-year accreditation from The Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities.

The Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities (CARF) is an independent, nonprofit accreditor of health and human services. CARF officially recognizes health and human service providers as having met rigorous standards for quality of service.

Achieving accreditation clearly shows The Council’s dedication to delivering safe, effective, and high-quality services and commitment to ongoing improvement.  

A three-year accreditation is the highest level of accreditation that can be awarded to an organization, following a rigorous peer review process and on-site visits. CARF accreditation gives confidence to our community that The Council is the place to start. 

For more information about CARF International, the standards, or the accreditation process, visit www.carf.org.

Houstonian Brené Brown Helps The Council on Recovery to Raise More Than $932,000

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Houstonian and New York Times bestseller Brené Brown inspired a crowd of more than 1,500 Houstonians at The Council on Recovery’s 40th Annual Spring Luncheon on Friday, April 19, 2024. Co-chaired by Diane Erbstoesser, Pasha & George Joseph, and Neeraj Parasher, the event raised more than $932,000 to help individuals and families impacted by substance use disorders and co-occurring mental health conditions.

Board of Trustees member Jerri Duddlesten Moore welcomed guests and highlighted the Speaker Series’ legacy of education and awareness. Executive Pastor Matt Russell from Chapelwood United Methodist Church provided the invocation. 

The Council’s President and CEO, Mary H. Beck, LMSW, CAI, emphasized that recovery is at the heart of the organization’s mission. She highlighted the organization’s expansion of services and capacity over the past two years, which aimed to reduce stigma and enhance campus events. “Today is a living, breathing testament to this mission,” emphasizing the luncheon’s impact in fighting addiction stigma and fostering recovery paths. Beck also stressed the ongoing commitment to this mission beyond the event, stating, “Our mission lives on beyond these walls,” as she outlined initiatives to expand treatment, develop future leaders, and enhance community partnerships. Beck affirmed their continuous effort to transform lives, underscoring, “We continue to approach our work with intent and passion.”

Luncheon Co-Chairs Pasha & George Joseph, and Neeraj Parasher followed with moving testimonials on how addiction has impacted their own lives.

George Joseph highlighted the transformative impact of addiction recovery, sharing his own experiences and the pivotal role of community support. He emphasized the significance of recovery efforts, stating, “One person’s recovery can affect hundreds and prevent generations of dysfunction.” 

Joseph praised Houston’s extensive recovery resources, noting its position as home to the largest Council in Recovery. He celebrated the community’s role in reducing stigma and educating others about addiction, underscoring the importance of events like the luncheon in spreading awareness and support.

Neeraj Parasher shared his transformative journey from addiction to recovery, emphasizing the profound role of hope in his life. He recounted the despair of waking up alone on Christmas Day 2018, a pivotal moment that led him to seek help. “I’m just thankful to be alive and free,” Neeraj expressed, grateful for the support from his sponsor and the Alcoholics Anonymous community that heard his “screams for help.” 

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He credits his wife, Morgan, with providing constant support and a reason to maintain his sobriety. Neeraj also highlighted his rewarding involvement with The Council’s Cradles program, where he plays Santa at their Annual Holiday Party, describing it as the most wonderful part of his year. Through his experiences, Neeraj has redefined what it means to live a consequential life, aiming to be a reliable presence for others struggling with addiction.

Board of Trustees Chair Amanda Polich reflected on the Council’s commitment to making treatment accessible, noting, “We made a promise never to turn away a family in need of treatment.” To fulfill this promise, the luncheons have raised over $22.2 million. Despite the growth in treatment options and innovations, the cost remains a significant barrier. 

To address this, Polich announced the launch of The Council’s Treatment Fund, seeded by a $150,000 donation from an anonymous donor. She urged attendees to contribute, using the donation methods provided at their tables, ensuring that all funds raised would directly support families in need of treatment.

Keynote Speaker Brené Brown then took the stage in an entertaining, thoughtful, and inspiring speech. Brené Brown shared poignant reflections on the importance of sobriety in her life, stating, “Every meaningful and important thing in my life, I owe to my sobriety.” She emphasized the transformative role of connection in overcoming addiction, remarking, “In the absence of connection, there is always suffering.” 

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Brown highlighted the contrast between addiction’s isolation and the community’s power, expressing gratitude for organizations like The Council that champion support for those unable to afford treatment. She noted, “I’m so grateful for The Council and their commitment to doing work on the hardest edges of love.” 

Brown’s message underscored the necessity of community and mutual support in recovery, concluding with a powerful reminder: “We don’t have to do it alone. We were never meant to.”

Support Networks for Recovery in Houston

The journey to recovery from addiction is undoubtedly challenging, but you don’t have to face it alone. In fact, having a robust support network can make a significant difference in your recovery journey. These networks provide the emotional, psychological, and practical assistance needed to navigate the ups and downs of recovery. 

Our team at The Council on Recovery is here to explain some of the support networks available in Houston, TX, offering you a comprehensive guide to finding the right help for your unique situation after leaving our treatment center.

Types of Support Networks in Houston

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Meetings

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) has long been a cornerstone of addiction recovery, providing a lifeline for those seeking to overcome alcoholism. Established in 1935, AA’s 12-step program focuses on both spiritual and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of admitting one’s powerlessness over alcohol and seeking help from a higher power. AA meetings offer a structured environment where individuals can share their experiences, receive encouragement, and draw strength from one another. These gatherings not only provide emotional support but also create a sense of belonging and community.

Benefits:

  • Strong community support that fosters a sense of belonging
  • Regular, structured meetings that provide consistency and routine
  • Anonymity and confidentiality, ensuring a safe space for sharing

SMART Recovery

SMART Recovery offers a modern, science-based approach to addiction recovery and is an excellent alternative for those who may not resonate with the spiritual aspects of AA. Utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques, SMART Recovery empowers individuals to take control of their addiction through self-management and goal-setting. This program encourages participants to develop healthy coping mechanisms, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and set achievable goals. With a focus on self-reliance and empowerment, SMART Recovery helps individuals build a foundation for long-term sobriety.

Benefits:

  • Evidence-based techniques that have been proven effective in research
  • Focus on self-reliance and empowerment, promoting personal responsibility
  • Flexible meeting formats, available both online and in-person, accommodating different needs and schedules

Faith-Based Groups

Faith-based recovery groups can be an essential part of the healing process for those who find strength and solace in spirituality. These groups often incorporate religious teachings and community support to guide individuals through recovery. 

Whether through prayer, scripture reading, or fellowship, faith-based groups offer a unique blend of spiritual and emotional support. Many participants find that their faith gives them a deeper sense of purpose and direction, which is crucial for maintaining long-term sobriety. These groups also create a community of like-minded individuals who share similar beliefs and values, making the recovery journey less isolating.

Benefits:

  • Spiritual support and guidance that aligns with personal beliefs
  • A community of like-minded individuals fostering a sense of belonging
  • Integration of faith and recovery, providing a holistic approach to healing

By exploring these different types of support networks available in Houston, individuals can find the resources and community that best fit their personal needs and preferences, aiding them on their journey to recovery.

Finding the Right Support Network

Choosing the right support network can be crucial in your recovery journey. A strong support system can provide the emotional, spiritual, and practical assistance you need to navigate the recovery challenges. Here are some tips to help you decide:

  • Identify Your Needs: Consider what kind of support you need—whether it’s emotional, spiritual, or practical. Understanding your specific needs can help you narrow down the type of support network that will be most beneficial. For instance, a group focused on sharing personal stories and feelings might be ideal if you need emotional support.
  • Research: Look into the various support networks available in Houston and see which aligns with your values and needs. Numerous organizations and groups exist, each with its own approach and philosophy. Spend some time reading about their methods and success rates, and consider contacting them with any questions you may have.
  • Attend a Few Meetings: Don’t hesitate to try out different groups to see where you feel most comfortable and supported. Finding a group where you feel a sense of belonging and trust is important. Remember that it might take a few tries to find the perfect fit, and that’s okay—it’s all part of the process.
  • Seek Professional Guidance: Sometimes, consulting with a recovery specialist can provide valuable insights into the best support network for you. Professionals can offer personalized recommendations based on their experience and understanding of your unique situation, making it easier for you to make an informed decision.

Addressing Common Concerns and Misconceptions

It’s natural to have reservations about joining a support group. Here are some common concerns and misconceptions:

  • Fear of Judgment: Remember, these groups are designed to be supportive and non-judgmental. Everyone is there for the same reason—to recover. Most group members have experienced similar struggles and can offer empathy and understanding rather than criticism. The shared goal of recovery fosters a compassionate and encouraging environment.
  • Confidentiality: Most groups, especially Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), emphasize anonymity and confidentiality, ensuring a safe space for all members. This means that what is shared in the group stays within the group, providing a secure environment where you can speak openly without fear of your privacy being compromised.
  • Effectiveness: While no one support group is a guaranteed solution, many individuals find that combining different types of support networks enhances their recovery experience. For example, some people benefit from the structured approach of a 12-step program while also attending therapy sessions or participating in a faith-based support group. Exploring various options can help you discover what combination works best for you.

Recovery is a personal and ongoing journey, and finding the right support network is a key component. Take the time to explore your options, and don’t be afraid to reach out for help. With the right support, you can make significant strides towards a healthier, happier life.

Get Help Now

Support networks are a vital component of the recovery process, offering emotional, spiritual, and practical assistance that can make a world of difference. Whether you opt for AA meetings, SMART Recovery, a faith-based group, or something else entirely, the key is to find a community where you feel supported and understood in your recovery.

If you’re ready to take the next step in your recovery journey, get help now by calling (713) 942-4100 to explore the treatment options available for you. You don’t have to do this alone—help is just a phone call away.

The Council Joins Forces with Teen and Family Services to Support Teens and Parents in the Face of Rising Overdose Deaths

The Council on Recovery is excited to welcome Teen and Family Services whose central office will now be housed at The Council’s campus on Jackson Hill Street in a strategic move that will multiply impact and conserve resources. The two recovery-focused nonprofits will maintain their distinct identities while sharing space and coordinating services for families with young people impacted by substance use.

The move comes amidst an alarming spike in drug overdoses, which is now the leading cause of unintentional death in the United States. Declining mental health is also a significant concern, with Texas Children’s Hospital reporting that the number of emergency room visits related to mental health crises has skyrocketed 800% since before the pandemic.

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“Teens today face more challenges and pressures than ever before,” said George Youngblood, President & CEO of Teen and Family Services. “Together, Teen and Family Services and The Council on Recovery can support the entire family as they navigate a complicated world.”

Long-time allies, the two nonprofits hope that by strengthening their collaboration, they can improve the landscape of care in Houston. “Addiction is too big a problem to solve alone. This partnership helps make the road to recovery easier,” said Mary Beck, President & CEO of The Council. “With so many families in need, it is essential that we join together with like-minded organizations to extend our own impact and make the best use of limited resources.”

With nearly a century of combined experience, The Council on Recovery and Teen and Family Services will work together to leverage their unique strengths to more fully serve families with teens affected by addiction and co-occurring mental health conditions. Services will include screening and assessment; education and parent coaching; individual, family, and group counseling; and recovery support services.

For more information on these services, or to make a referral, contact us through our website or call 713.914.0556.